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Post by beefmonger on Nov 1, 2006 21:29:19 GMT -5
I know this is the second self-invloved topic in a row that I've posted, but I truly need your input. Okay, so I have an addiction which very well could be and probably is damaging my relationship with El-Sahddai. I guess I just wanna know how to be rid of the addiction. If you really need more information about it, then I guess I'll hafta give it to you. But if you can give me advice without it, that'd be much appreciated.
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Post by Thenin on Nov 2, 2006 0:04:54 GMT -5
Have you tried to look up verses about addiction perhaps? Here are some that I found: 1 Corinthians 10:13 "Remember that the temptations that come into your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can't stand up against it. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you will not give in to it." Matthew 26:41 "Keep alert and pray. Otherwise temptation will overpower you. For though the spirit is willing enough, the body is weak!"
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Post by beefmonger on Nov 2, 2006 1:21:34 GMT -5
These are inspirational, but I've done what they command and it seems like I'm still missing something. Thank you, though.
I think I've seen topical biblical search engines around. I'll go look one of those up. Thanks for the idea =^)
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Post by steel_lily on Nov 2, 2006 12:50:30 GMT -5
It would help to know the addiction....the first rule of warfare: Know thine enemy.
But as for a general spectrum...deny it. I know that it's not that simple, but put measures in place to deny it. Find something that means something to you and put it right next to the object of your addiction, somewhere that you would have to see it as you were going toward your addiction. Perhaps even write a poigniant Bible verse on a slip of paper and tape it to whatever it is during one of your saner moments.
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Post by Thenin on Nov 2, 2006 13:08:36 GMT -5
I agree with Steel_Lily. The first step is to deny yourself the addicition. Perhaps if that is to difficult try to wean yourself off it. Another thing that really helps is telling a friend what you plan on doing. If you set a goal for yourself, then tell a friend, you are much more likely to succed(sp) in whatever it is your doing.
James 5:16 "Therefore, confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective."
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Post by beefmonger on Nov 2, 2006 17:54:30 GMT -5
Thanks bunches 'n' bunches. I can't tell you how much I need what you give to me right now.
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Post by Kirke on Nov 2, 2006 18:00:29 GMT -5
"Tell a friend". Sage advice, if you know what a friend is. I do not advise confessing your most private sins on a public forum, any more than I reccomend taking out an advertisement for them in your local newspaper. This is best reserved for in person discussions or telephone conversations (at least!).
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Post by st1_Emrys on Nov 2, 2006 21:00:52 GMT -5
Wise words my friend. Heed them, and may freedom greet you. I think a most crucial part of this is that which are newly re-dubbed Kirke has stated: tell a friend.
But don't just dump your troubles on them, start a trend of accountability. Find a friend you trust, and report to them regularly on your progress- not only discussing what is going well, but what is going poorly. You would be amazed how much knowing that you are going to have to tell a friend what you've done helps.
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Post by beefmonger on Nov 2, 2006 23:25:52 GMT -5
I've spoken with one of my closest friends, and yes, it was a good thing to do, but he insists since I'm 13 it's just fine to be doing what I'm doing, when it really isn't. I'm not sure I really have any close friends aside from him, so I figured I'd go wherever I could to get help. Actually, there is this one guy that I've really looked up to for "spiritual" matters. Maybe I'll run it by him.
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Post by Alameth of the Iron Fist on Nov 3, 2006 7:08:31 GMT -5
A good idea. If I may say so, I am proud of you for taking such steps. Not all would do so. You have my prayers on this, friend.
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Post by beefmonger on Nov 4, 2006 1:05:25 GMT -5
Thank you.
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